This Sunday, May 8, is Mother’s Day. It’s an important day in that it reminds us of the love and extraordinary sacrifices mothers can make for their children.

Since the 1960s there have been significant changes in the way women see themselves: having now the sexual freedoms formally perceived to belong only to men; having the capacity to rise to high positions, professionally and politically; yet still having the unique capacity to be a mother.


It may come as a surprise to many to read Proverbs 31:10-31. The woman personified here is probably a composite, drawing together aspects of womanhood the Bible applauds.

At first glance we could say she would make a good New Yorker, given what she does and the pace of her life! But we see here not just characteristics of an ideal wife and mother but also a picture of the Bible’s view of womanhood. Indeed there are lessons here that are applicable across society and time.

Who is this woman? Let me identify some key themes. She is a manager. In verses 11 through 13 we see she is active and competent, promoting goodness and protecting those around her against life’s hazards. Indeed, she is capable of taking on a variety of significant responsibilities.

She is also an entrepreneur – a successful businesswoman. In verses 14 through 16 we see she buys and sells in the market place and she has an eye for property and investment opportunities. Her lamp does not go out, suggesting either prosperity or long hours of work. She is physically fit and strong (verse 17) and skilled in spinning her own thread (verse 19).

But she is also compassionate and caring. Proverbs 31:20 tells us that she gives a percentage of her profits to the poor, reinforcing the biblical principle that prosperity is to be shared with those who are less well off.

Furthermore, her conversation is not simply small talk, gossip or about the latest fashion. She uses opportunities to speak words of wisdom (verses 26, 27). She brings God into her conversation – his revelation and his wisdom for life – so essential in the home and beyond.


Her independence, her energy, her entrepreneurial gifts? No. In Proverbs 31:30-31 we read: Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.

These verses form a fitting conclusion to the Book of Proverbs for they bring us back to the starting point – chapter 1:7: The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; fools despise wisdom and instruction. This is what this woman has learned – a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.

The Book of Proverbs has some salutary words about those women whose goal in life is to trap men. Proverbs 31 reverses this, for here is a woman who, fearing the Lord, shapes her life around his Word and his wisdom. She is also a reversal of Genesis 3 and its account of Adam and Eve and their fall.

When we view Proverbs 31 through the lens of the New Testament we can see it as a pointer to Mary and her response to the announcement of the angel Gabriel (Luke 1:35ff). Luke’s account draws our attention to the depth of Mary’s experience of God’s mercy. My soul magnifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, she says (Luke 1:46f). Mary is not the bestower of grace. She is the beneficiary of grace.


God says to women, as he does to men, ‘I have designed you and made you. Listen to me; turn to me; trust me’.

Let’s take the time this Mother’s Day to thank the Lord for the mother he gave us. Above all, let’s thank God for the Son that Mary bore – Jesus Christ, God’s only Son, our Lord. For to fear him is the beginning of wisdom. To turn to him in repentance and in faith is to know the beginning of life.

© John G. Mason